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The weird rule that changes everything
Last month at the Braver Angels National Convention, I got to do something I love: chair a community debate.
The topic? Whether the U.S. legislature should be the most powerful branch of government.
1 day ago2 min read


Can political disagreement make you happier?
"Happiness" is the last thing many of us expect to find on a call with a stranger from the opposite political side. But that was exactly what Axel Bouchon and his team were hoping to spark.
5 days ago56 min read


'Can you love me if you don't accept who I love?'
How do you stay close to people who won’t share your worldview? Can love exist while someone feels rejected? And can you invest in the relationship without condoning the other’s convictions?
Jul 351 min read


How to Let People Offend You
For most of human history, offensive speech was equal to violence, and saying the wrong thing could get your tongue chopped off. Today, we aim to use words instead of violence. But what do you do when those words really hurt?
Jun 1944 min read


Speak out or work it out: What’s yours to do right now?
With political tensions at a new peak, the pressure to take a stand — or keep the peace — can be intense. But how do you know the difference between the move that feels right and the one that is right?
Jun 561 min read


What do you need most?
The other night here in Cape Town, South Africa, I turned to one of the most extraordinary teachers I’ve ever met and asked her a question that had been tickling me for days.
Feb 212 min read


We’re getting curious in a new continent
In two days I’ll be traveling somewhere I’ve never been and can’t wait to learn from — South Africa.
Feb 92 min read


Are we speaking different languages?
One day when I was six, my teacher told me to go to a “drawer,” and I had no idea what she meant. I had just moved to a new school — a new country — and was still learning the language. When I repeated the mystery word...
Jan 262 min read


You’re being exploited.
Not long ago I saw a poster that stopped me. "The only thing we have to fear,” it read, “is how easily I can make you afraid."
Jan 122 min read


This is what joy can do.
A couple weeks ago, I had one of those simple, profound moments with a friend that left a mark.
Dec 29, 20251 min read


I dare you to read both of these...
Curiosity is a muscle. And today — only if you’re up for it — I have a challenge to help you build it.
Dec 15, 20252 min read


Conversation as sanctuary — join me?
“Disagreeing in public should not be a death sentence.” I heard a fellow bridge builder say those words a few days ago and they haven’t left me since.
Sep 22, 20252 min read


The only thing that counts...
Because of this weird work I do, I sometimes find myself dipping deep into a conservative-dominated conversation, then deep into a liberal-dominated conversation — or vice-versa — always coming out a little stunned.
Mar 24, 20252 min read


We started off strangers...
I’ve had some amazing conversations this month with the likes of brilliant Ivy League students and passionate pluralism pros. But none were as memorable as the one I had with July...
Mar 3, 20252 min read


If I were president...
It’s been an intense couple weeks since the new administration rolled in, and in addition to this wild idea ⬆️ I know inspired at least one person to actually call their representative (YES!), I’ve got three quick things to spark your curiosity...
Feb 5, 20251 min read


The book that got under my skin
For someone who goes on and on about staying curious, I haven’t made a lot of time to read books. Until now. I just finished one by one hell of a bold thinker — the sociologist Musa Al-Gharbi.
Jan 20, 20251 min read


An unforgettable moment
Hey there friend, The Obama Foundation picked “pluralism” as the theme for its 2024 Democracy Forum, and I was humbled — and challenged! — to be invited to speak. Watch my talk (just 6 minutes) See a photo from a moment I’m not about to forget So many of my heroes in political bridging were there, too: Manu Meel of BridgeUSA, Eboo Patel of Interfaith America, Layla Zaidane of the Future Caucus, and more. If you don’t already follow their work, go check them out! See ab
Dec 23, 20242 min read


How can I change their mind?
These days, most of my thoughts around curiosity, ending divisiveness, and creating community have been going straight into my podcast, A Braver Way, and I'd love to start sharing them with you! So without further ado... let's dive into our latest podcast: Whether it was about foreign policy, the economy, or the best route to the grocery store, chances are you have changed your mind about something. What happens in your brain when you do, and what does that teach us about
Aug 27, 20241 min read


Stay sharp: Remarks to the Wheaton College Class of 2024
Hello! Congratulations! And thank you so much for this amazing honor, what in the world, this is still not quite real – I have my husband and two kids here just to make sure I don’t think I’m dreaming later – thank you. What a thing. And from a community I know is asking what it means to be open, to be curious, at a time where that can feel risky, scary, and wrong. Let me tell you a story I heard some years ago that, when I do the work that I do, is never far from my mind. So
Jun 26, 20243 min read


With a little help from my friends
Hey friend, It occurred to me the other day that I’m learning constantly from some very thoughtful, curious, and hard-working friends whose views span the political spectrum, and (where are my manners?!) I have completely neglected to introduce them to you. So here are a few fine folks to get to know. I’ll let you all take it from here. 💛 April Lawson April is the architect of Braver Angels Debates, which has the most successful structure I have ever seen — or more like
Dec 16, 20233 min read
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