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What do you need most?
The other night here in Cape Town, South Africa, I turned to one of the most extraordinary teachers I’ve ever met and asked her a question that had been tickling me for days.
2 days ago2 min read


We’re getting curious in a new continent
In two days I’ll be traveling somewhere I’ve never been and can’t wait to learn from — South Africa.
Feb 92 min read


Are we speaking different languages?
One day when I was six, my teacher told me to go to a “drawer,” and I had no idea what she meant. I had just moved to a new school — a new country — and was still learning the language. When I repeated the mystery word back — “drawer?” — one of the boys laughed.
Jan 262 min read


You’re being exploited.
Not long ago I saw a poster that stopped me. "The only thing we have to fear,” it read, “is how easily I can make you afraid."
Jan 122 min read


This is what joy can do.
A couple weeks ago, I had one of those simple, profound moments with a friend that left a mark.
Dec 29, 20251 min read


I dare you to read both of these...
Curiosity is a muscle. And today — only if you’re up for it — I have a challenge to help you build it.
Dec 15, 20252 min read


Conversation as sanctuary — join me?
“Disagreeing in public should not be a death sentence.” I heard a fellow bridge builder say those words a few days ago and they haven’t left me since.
Sep 21, 20252 min read


The only thing that counts...
Because of this weird work I do, I sometimes find myself dipping deep into a conservative-dominated conversation, then deep into a liberal-dominated conversation — or vice-versa — always coming out a little stunned.
Mar 23, 20252 min read


We started off strangers...
I’ve had some amazing conversations this month with the likes of brilliant Ivy League students and passionate pluralism pros. But none were as memorable as the one I had with July...
Mar 3, 20252 min read


If I were president...
It’s been an intense couple weeks since the new administration rolled in, and in addition to this wild idea ⬆️ I know inspired at least one person to actually call their representative (YES!), I’ve got three quick things to spark your curiosity...
Feb 5, 20251 min read


The book that got under my skin
For someone who goes on and on about staying curious, I haven’t made a lot of time to read books. Until now. I just finished one by...
Jan 20, 20251 min read


An unforgettable moment
Hey there friend, The Obama Foundation picked “pluralism” as the theme for its 2024 Democracy Forum , and I was humbled — and...
Dec 23, 20242 min read


How can I change their mind?
These days, most of my thoughts around curiosity, ending divisiveness, and creating community have been going straight into my podcast, A...
Aug 26, 20241 min read


Stay sharp: Remarks to the Wheaton College Class of 2024
Hello! Congratulations! And thank you so much for this amazing honor, what in the world, this is still not quite real – I have my husband...
Jun 26, 20243 min read


With a little help from my friends
Hey friend, It occurred to me the other day that I’m learning constantly from some very thoughtful, curious, and hard-working friends...
Dec 16, 20233 min read


My new Braver Way podcast is here!
It’s here! 😱 My brand new podcast, A Braver Way, is out in the world with three new episodes — yes, THREE — razor-focused on the...
Nov 6, 20232 min read


Announcing my brand new podcast!
It’s finally official! A Braver Way, a brand new podcast I’m hosting about how to stay curious across divides, launches October 2023 and...
Oct 4, 20231 min read


Don’t believe your (f)ears
Partway through my curiosity workshop this summer, after an exercise where participants came up with quick questions about each other’s...
Sep 24, 20233 min read


10 curiosity approved books
Why do we read? We read to escape. We read to learn. And we read for this bright, shining moment of illumination where we understand...
Aug 27, 20232 min read


One curious summer
Breathless in Aspen We started our adventure at the Aspen Ideas Festival, where I gave the most winded talk of my entire life. Our flight...
Aug 6, 20233 min read
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