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I dare you to read both of these...
Curiosity is a muscle. And today — only if you’re up for it — I have a challenge to help you build it.
6 days ago2 min read


Conversation as sanctuary — join me?
“Disagreeing in public should not be a death sentence.” I heard a fellow bridge builder say those words a few days ago and they haven’t left me since.
Sep 212 min read


The only thing that counts...
Because of this weird work I do, I sometimes find myself dipping deep into a conservative-dominated conversation, then deep into a liberal-dominated conversation — or vice-versa — always coming out a little stunned.
Mar 232 min read


We started off strangers...
I’ve had some amazing conversations this month with the likes of brilliant Ivy League students and passionate pluralism pros. But none were as memorable as the one I had with July...
Mar 32 min read


If I were president...
It’s been an intense couple weeks since the new administration rolled in, and in addition to this wild idea ⬆️ I know inspired at least one person to actually call their representative (YES!), I’ve got three quick things to spark your curiosity...
Feb 51 min read


The book that got under my skin
For someone who goes on and on about staying curious, I haven’t made a lot of time to read books. Until now. I just finished one by...
Jan 201 min read


An unforgettable moment
Hey there friend, The Obama Foundation picked “pluralism” as the theme for its 2024 Democracy Forum , and I was humbled — and...
Dec 23, 20242 min read


How can I change their mind?
These days, most of my thoughts around curiosity, ending divisiveness, and creating community have been going straight into my podcast, A...
Aug 26, 20241 min read


Stay sharp: Remarks to the Wheaton College Class of 2024
Hello! Congratulations! And thank you so much for this amazing honor, what in the world, this is still not quite real – I have my husband...
Jun 26, 20243 min read


With a little help from my friends
Hey friend, It occurred to me the other day that I’m learning constantly from some very thoughtful, curious, and hard-working friends...
Dec 16, 20233 min read


My new Braver Way podcast is here!
It’s here! 😱 My brand new podcast, A Braver Way, is out in the world with three new episodes — yes, THREE — razor-focused on the...
Nov 6, 20232 min read


Announcing my brand new podcast!
It’s finally official! A Braver Way, a brand new podcast I’m hosting about how to stay curious across divides, launches October 2023 and...
Oct 4, 20231 min read


Don’t believe your (f)ears
Partway through my curiosity workshop this summer, after an exercise where participants came up with quick questions about each other’s...
Sep 24, 20233 min read


10 curiosity approved books
Why do we read? We read to escape. We read to learn. And we read for this bright, shining moment of illumination where we understand...
Aug 27, 20232 min read


One curious summer
Breathless in Aspen We started our adventure at the Aspen Ideas Festival, where I gave the most winded talk of my entire life. Our flight...
Aug 6, 20233 min read


Shame on… who?
Shame is that feeling you get when you realize you’ve violated the norms of your community. But it only works when it comes from your...
Jul 25, 20232 min read


‘Because they don’t know you…’
“Hurt people hurt people.” It’s a lovely bit of rhetoric that happens to say something profound. To quote my new friend Erin Jones on a...
Jun 8, 20232 min read


Do you trust me?
In my work I think a lot about the relationship between truth and trust. How you need trust to get to truth. Especially the kinds of deep...
May 25, 20232 min read


Ask a thousand questions
In my house we are *obsessed* with the soundtrack to Roald Dahl’s Matilda the Musical. Especially “School Song,” a clever track that...
Mar 26, 20232 min read


Oh the places you’ll go
My eyes lingered on a short, quick tweet awhile before I realized it was one of the most delightfully curious compliments I’d ever seen. ...
Mar 13, 20232 min read
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